Showing posts with label online presence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label online presence. Show all posts

Day 295 - Defining My Online Presence

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SIMPLE: "Make everything as simple as possible but no simpler." Albert Einstein
TRUE: Be true to your passion, with values and behavior in alignment
ACT: "Vision without execution is hallucination." Thomas Edison
MAP: Know how to get from where you are to where you want to be
PEOPLE: The greatest success is achieved in collaboration
Taken from a book review by Robert Morris

The book called Digital Leader: 5 Simple Keys to Success and Influence, was recommend from a student in my recent online Social Media class. The book has a chapter on each of these concepts, but I've only just read this review and chosen to expand on each key to better see my "digital self" from a leadership perspective. *After writing the bulk of the below text, I am considering the purchase of this book and think anyone who is slightly interested in digital leadership should too consider it!


1) Simple
  • "Make everything as simple as possible..."
  • This is a good point to keep in mind because very quickly my writing can become verbose. The nature of Self-Forgiveness and my journey to life is 'content heavy' to say the least. This should not be an excuse to blabber on during my blog posts.
    • I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear witting too little to be effective and within that not realize when I am writing more than I need to.
      • I commit myself to the self-honest assessment of when I have written too little/too much based on my written words' effectiveness in supporting myself within self-realization.
  • "...but no simpler."
2) True
  • Be true to your passion, with values and behavior in alignment.
  • Self-Honesty
  • This is why I'm here.
  • This is why I write, which is important to note because my motivation is mostly derived from purpose.
    • I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to want to show off and be cool because I found out about the 'solution of self-forgiveness,' instead of self-honestly moving myself through this process for myself alone.
      • I commit myself to investigating wherever my values and behaviors are not in alignment with the knowledge and information I write about, so I may take the time to apply and live the self-correction.
3) Act
  • "Vision without execution is hallucination."
  • This is similar to the second key value. To distinguish the two, I would label this one to be the living application. This blog is my writing dimension, which is a biggy, but living the correction from the insights and realizations that I have while writing is equally important.
    • I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to forget that I'm not just here to write.
      • I commit myself to start systematically bringing realization through into living application.
    • I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to believe that as long as I write, I can slack off during the rest of my day.
      • I commit myself to facing the reality of my life as signified by how I choose to spend my time in each moment.
      • I realize that vision without application is useless mind play.
4) Map
  • Know how to get from where you are to where you want to be.
  • I have the 'map' / the how to / the Desteni tools: Self-Forgiveness, Self-Writing, Breath and Common Sense (from here)
  •  I do not know exactly what I will become in this journey to life as the living expression of what is best for all, but I do know that I will be here with me in every breath! What is there to fear?
    • I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear that I do not know how to get where I want to be through a moment of forgetting my breath within a charged fear experience.
      • I commit myself to be patient with myself as the breath, realizing that it's my mind that wants to move faster than my physical breathing, but it is the thought and desire that slow me down.
      • I commit myself to practically applying my map to get to where I want to be.
        • pure
        • self-honest
        • oneness and equality, self-realized
5)  People
  • The greatest success is achieved in collaboration
  • Also why I am here.
  • My publicized JTL Blog also serves as a way to share my individual process. I write transparently, for you to see me, so that perhaps one day, you might join Desteni and begin seriously investigating your mind too! It's worth it. Brace for a Dan Malara original quote:
    • "No one enjoys facing their fears, until they do."
    • I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear sharing my process with all others.
    • I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear judgement.
    • I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear making videos of myself.
    • I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to let fear control and suppress my self-expression.
      • I commit myself to walk my process and persist in removing the stifling fears that prevent me from sharing to my maximum potential
      • I commit myself to sharing the perspective that each of us must stand up alone AND together in order to create a world that is literally the best place for all life.

Reflection: Long post, but I liked the break down. This is just a tiny portion of the homework I'll be conducting in order to become a leader in this global, digital community. For now, I commit myself to stabilize myself within self-leadership in my daily living. Starting with, SHADOWGUN...come see me tomorrow. Thanks for the support reader.

Day 224 - Process/Reality Disconnect

There are a few dynamics within my relationship toward writing this blog and the writing through self-forgiveness process, where I do not make a connection into reality. I've been writing about this a couple times already in how my commitments are either not holding or so simple and general that it requires virtually no effort on my part to uphold them. Fear.

I'm afraid to take this process into my own hands, because then it's real...yet that's what it takes. Why am I writing otherwise? To uphold an image of myself through the nature of publishing. I would like to get to the point where I am 100% working with these tools for myself.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to write myself out for all to see from a starting point of having to do it to uphold an image or tailor my online appearance.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to write for my online presence personality.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate my online self from myself, here on the ground. This is a big point as I've been living a lie to certain degrees while I'm online. Tailoring my internet image to be as ideal as possible. This is not a full disconnect, and I do identify with my internet activities. The concerning issue is that there is a relationship to my online identity, and that it is not simply just me, as one with my online presence, expressing myself without effort.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to not realize this disconnect earlier.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to think that I can walk process with/through my online identity in separation of myself in my everyday physical reality.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to be afraid to express myself equally online and in real life. *needs expansion

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to conceptualize online in contrast to real life.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to walk process within an alternate mind dimension, separate from my breath, as who I am. There are a few reasons why I might do this, and it will require a deeper investigation. Why have I attempted to walk process within separation of myself? Ahhh, okay. (I am a fan of asking the self questions)
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When and as I see myself attempting to walk process for any other reason than for myself, I stop I breathe. I realize that through this, I am moving through/with another character of mind. I commit myself to investigating the nature of my primary characters and writing a map for them so that I can effectively lead the investigation of myself for the purpose leading myself through self-change.

When and as I see myself attempting to walk process in separation of myself, I stop I breathe. I realize that this separation can be traced to a fear, as self-doubt, as a fundamental insecurity within that has guided me to strive to become better. I commit myself to walk this point through to completion to give myself the necessary insight into my inclinations for this mode of existence that has long been a starting point for all self-expression. I commit myself to walking myself back into my physical breath, and STOP this desire to prove to myself that I am not the weak/unable/inferior person that I believe myself to be.

When and as I see myself posting/publishing anything online as if it is NOT a an equal expression of self in my physical environment, I stop I breathe. I realize that the disconnect is an illusion perpetuated by a lack of understanding of the technology that is the computer/internet. I commit myself to treating each online action just as real as I would in my offline environment. No trolling for me!




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